Love works in unusual methods and lastly finds its manner. Nothing may very well be extra true for actor Helen and Salman Khan’s father, scriptwriter Salim Khan. On her 82nd birthday on Friday, right here’s a contemporary take a look at their love story.
Salim was a married man with youngsters when he determined to marry actor Helen in 1980. He was 45 and she was 42, not the most standard age to marry. But theirs was a relationship that was cemented by time. Marriage simply made it a proper and gave them society’s approval.
Born in 1935, Salim got here to Mumbai (then Bombay), aged 23, to turn into an actor. After a number of years in the metropolis, he married Sushila Charak, whom he had courted for a number of years, in 1964. A yr later, Salman was born. However, it was round this time, he met and labored with Helen, well-known for her vamp roles and dances in Bollywood films by means of the Fifties and Nineteen Sixties. In the course of their affiliation, they fell in love however marriage occurred somewhat late. Incidentally, for a lot of this interval, Helen too was married to at least one Prem Narayan Arora, whom she divorced in 1974.
So what was it about Salim that attracted her to him? In an interview to journalist Shashi Balinga, she had revealed how of the many business of us, he was one who by no means tried to take benefit of her. She was quoted in Pinkvilla as saying: “Something about Salim set him apart from rest of the industry men. I respected him tremendously as he tried to help me out without trying to exploit me.”
So was it actually romantic in any respect? Not fairly. Salim was quoted as saying: “I won’t be able to say when exactly I fell in love with her or decided to marry her. After seeing her for quite a long time we decided to honour our relationship. We got married in 1980.”
And was it straightforward to cool down with a married man? Helen did confess that she felt responsible seeing a married man and Salim accepted that his spouse and children had been removed from accepting Helen. He additionally mentioned how the children carried their mom’s hostility into this relationship. “As kids they had their hostility. But they reacted the way their mother did. As I told you very honestly, it wasn’t as if Salma accepted the relationship happily straightaway and thanked me for it or said, you deserve an Oscar for it. So at that time there was hostility from the children.”
It was solely pure that his youngsters, fairly grown up by 1980, wouldn’t taken kindly of Helen. Salman was in spite of everything already 15 and aptly understood what was taking place. However, with time Salma and his youngsters, noticed that Helen was actually a heat individual and, over the years, their emotions in direction of her modified. Today, she and, Salim and her adopted daughter Arpita, are very a lot an element of the Khan household.
In reality, Arpita is sort of the darling of her brother, Salman and usually the centre of the Khan family. Salim’s life with his two wives, youngsters and his many grandchildren is one of bliss. But would he advocate two marriages to anybody? Not actually. He was quoted in the identical report as saying: “Falling in love twice was a beautiful accident that happened to me. I have survived that accident! Though I wouldn’t recommend it as an ideal way of living. Normally it doesn’t work.”
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